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steve147
12-28-2008, 02:29 PM
Hi all! i have a confession to make... This will not be easy to admit but please hear me out!

I was 15 when i first noticed a female bodybuilder and i was blown away by her level of muscularity! From that time on i have taken a keen interest in the sport. I find it very exciting. In other words - its not boring. :rolleyes:

Reading the previous post about stalkers or groupie by JBilella.......

Sir! you should have been more explanatory about your first post. First of all i will say i totally understand alot of women would be uncomfortable at times in certain situations. But do you think Marilyn Monroe could go anywhere without being annoyed or harrased by fans and general public? I know its not right and its something i would'nt do myself.

Anyway i think your post was rude to non important industry members. BTW I think i know why Tre joind the Industry in the first place ;) Sorry to use you az an example pal. I know you maybe regret that innocent but vile post. But could you please give us Pervets an apology?:bowdown:
:popcorn:

Girls luv ya all, keep up the great work! Sioux yu run a tight ship mate. Keep doin what you doin. :tr:

I should stay away from the smoko....:wtf:

Badgergrl
12-28-2008, 02:37 PM
:awesome:

Schmoes are the backbone of the industry. ;)

FemFlex
12-28-2008, 02:56 PM
:awesome:

Schmoes are the backbone of the industry. ;)

Thanks, BG.

Please educate Sioux on this fact.

It's sad that society conditions some people to hate what they are.

KP DIVA
12-28-2008, 04:30 PM
Sounds to me like for some there is a very fine line between what one would consider a fan, schmoe, groupie, and/or stalker. Depending on a person's level of comfort w/ the above would determine what they would perceive a paticular person as.

IMO a fan/schmoe/groupie are relatively harmless and shouldn't even be in the same sentence as a stalker. When you have truly been stalked you can see a clear difference between the two. However, some ppl may feel the exact opposite.

As for Sioux....it's not that he doesn't recognize the above...hell, he's a big FAN/supporter....the proof is in the board!! However, I think the previous thread had began to take a negative tone...that's all.

Siouxcountry
12-28-2008, 05:07 PM
Thanks, BG.

Please educate Sioux on this fact.

It's sad that society conditions some people to hate what they are.

What do I need to be educated about?

:confused:

dallas3
12-28-2008, 09:54 PM
:awesome:

Schmoes are the backbone of the industry. ;)

Only in this industry is that word so common. Cracks me up to hear or see it when mentioning certain kinds of people.

musclesrsexy
12-28-2008, 10:01 PM
I think out of a thousand fans, one may have the propensity to be a stalker. I don't know how easily celebrities can control that short of getting a bodyguard or staying away from the public. I know there's been at least a few fbbs who have left because of this.

Shelly
12-28-2008, 10:02 PM
i do not think joe was looking to insult anyone. and are you admitting you are a pervert?


this thread is redundant and unnecessary IMO.

DANISH DYNAMITE
12-28-2008, 10:39 PM
There is a line between being attracted and being obsessed in a sick way.
And it's not a fine one..

steve147
12-28-2008, 11:05 PM
i do not think joe was looking to insult anyone. and are you admitting you are a pervert?


this thread is redundant and unnecessary IMO.

No i am not a pervert nor am i a stalker. Thanks for understanding my humour :nuts:.... But i do appreciate the amount of training and lifestlye dedication a woman goes through to look her best. I am simply a fan and i will not be made to feel demorilized for that matter.

I don't think there is anything Sioux needs to understand. He provides a great service and a safe medium for for the Pro's, industry types and fans alike.

Joe may not have looked to insult anyone and i belive this. It was just a sensitive subject which automatically points the finger at fans with a message like "What the hell are you doing here if you are not in the industry?".
So i simply wanted to state my case. :kiss:

Shelly
12-28-2008, 11:06 PM
No i am not a pervert nor am i a stalker. Thanks for understanding my humour :nuts:.... But i do appreciate the amount of training and lifestlye dedication a woman goes through to look her best. I am simply a fan and i will not be made to feel demorilized for that matter.

I don't think there is anything Sioux needs to understand. He provides a great service and a safe medium for for the Pro's, industry types and fans alike.

Joe may not have looked to insult anyone and i belive this. It was just a sensitive subject which automatically points the finger at fans with a message like "What the hell are you doing here if you are not in the industry?".
So i simply wanted to state my case. :kiss:

understood steve :)

musclefox
12-28-2008, 11:13 PM
There is a line between being attracted and being obsessed in a sick way.
And it's not a fine one..

A "fine line" means a BIG difference......a "thin line" means there is little or no "gray area".

DANISH DYNAMITE
12-28-2008, 11:36 PM
A "fine line" means a BIG difference......a "thin line" means there is little or no "gray area".

Haha just understand what I mean not what I type;)
I think you got my message:)

Let's say there's no line between then, there's a tree trunk between!! LOL

musclefox
12-28-2008, 11:49 PM
I know what you mean D.D. (Danish Dynamite). I just couldn't "resist" the temptation to mess around a little...:shrug::devil:

Haha just understand what I mean not what I type;)
I think you got my message:)

Let's say there's no line between then, there's a tree trunk between!! LOL

DANISH DYNAMITE
12-29-2008, 12:19 AM
I know what you mean D.D. (Danish Dynamite). I just couldn't "resist" the temptation to mess around a little...:shrug::devil:

You're bad;)

Read my pro thread - touche' LOL

Das
12-29-2008, 05:30 PM
Haha just understand what I mean not what I type;)
I think you got my message:)

Let's say there's no line between then, there's a tree trunk between!! LOL

LOL@ a tree trunk.

Based on what I have heard from some of the competitors it would be a sequoia.

FemFlex
12-29-2008, 05:51 PM
There is a line between being attracted and being obsessed in a sick way.
And it's not a fine one..

Helle, I'm sure, can confirm that there is nothing sick about my obsession.

Well, not really anyway... ;)

DANISH DYNAMITE
12-29-2008, 06:18 PM
LOL@ a tree trunk.

Based on what I have heard from some of the competitors it would be a sequoia.

LOL I had to google sequoia. We dont have those trees in Denmark.

"It is an evergreen, long-lived, monoecious tree living for up to 2,200 years, and this species includes the tallest trees on Earth, reaching up to 115.5 m (379.1 ft) in height and 8 m (26 ft) diameter at breast height. It is native to coastal California and the southwestern corner of Oregon within the United States."

I think sequoia is a very good pick;)

DANISH DYNAMITE
12-29-2008, 06:41 PM
Helle, I'm sure, can confirm that there is nothing sick about my obsession.

Well, not really anyway... ;)

You have always been a real gentleman to me Tre:)
Sick obsession.. No I dont think so. Natural attraction for voluptuous women I would call it;) I mean we are the most beautiful women on the planet, I understand why you cant resist...lol.. But sexually harrasing and stalking beautiful women is sick. Unfortunately, that happens. Maybe it comes with the territory being a public person, but it is still unacceptable and a violation of another persons personal sphere. I have uncomfortable personal experience, and can't say it hasn't added to my withdrawal from competition.
Now had I had a man like you to protect me.. :p

steve147
12-30-2008, 12:47 AM
You have always been a real gentleman to me Tre:)
Sick obsession.. No I dont think so. Natural attraction for voluptuous women I would call it;) I mean we are the most beautiful women on the planet, I understand why you cant resist...lol.. But sexually harrasing and stalking beautiful women is sick. Unfortunately, that happens. Maybe it comes with the territory being a public person, but it is still unacceptable and a violation of another persons personal sphere. I have uncomfortable personal experience, and can't say it hasn't added to my withdrawal from competition.
Now had I had a man like you to protect me.. :p


I could imagine a lot of women would give up the sport because of harassment and its a shame that you can't pursue something you love because of these sicko's.
Is it possible to take out and AVO to stop these people? I know it can be done where im from. I would suggest you excersise this power imediately. Because its not fair for anyone to have to put up with this.

BTW the topic headline " Confession of a Stalker" is an attention grabber only. I have never seen a woman of muscle before and i do not private message any either. Maybe once or twice but thats it:angel:

Tre, you should seriously consider doing personal security for these women. :respect:

DANISH DYNAMITE
12-30-2008, 01:04 AM
I could imagine a lot of women would give up the sport because of harassment and its a shame that you can't pursue something you love because of these sicko's.
Is it possible to take out and AVO to stop these people? I know it can be done where im from. I would suggest you excersise this power imediately. Because its not fair for anyone to have to put up with this.

BTW the topic headline " Confession of a Stalker" is an attention grabber only. I have never seen a woman of muscle before and i do not private message any either. Maybe once or twice but thats it:angel:

Tre, you should seriously consider doing personal security for these women. :respect:

AVO?

I knew your post was meant in a fun ironic way. I got your point.
Your second post was a lot clearer in what you wanted to get across though;)

If Tre starts up a personal security business I'll sign up!!

steve147
12-30-2008, 01:24 AM
AVO?

I knew your post was meant in a fun ironic way. I got your point.
Your second post was a lot clearer in what you wanted to get across though;)

If Tre starts up a personal security business I'll sign up!!


Thanks Helle,

AVO stands for " Apprehended Violence Order " bassically with this order the offender can be ordered never to be within 500 meters of another persons space. If he/she breaks this order then Jail time is served.

Iv'e used it against an ex girlfriend, she didn't take our seperation too well:nuts:
Now she watches me with binoculars from 500 meters away :D

Anyway i would think most countries would have some sort of protection like this.

DANISH DYNAMITE
12-30-2008, 01:45 AM
Thanks Helle,

AVO stands for " Apprehended Violence Order " bassically with this order the offender can be ordered never to be within 500 meters of another persons space. If he/she breaks this order then Jail time is served.

Iv'e used it against an ex girlfriend, she didn't take our seperation too well:nuts:
Now she watches me with binoculars from 500 meters away :D

Anyway i would think most countries would have some sort of protection like this.

Ahh I get you. I havent been stalked close to my home, but several times at competitions or expo's. I just recently started to go again. When I was younger I didn't handle it very well. It freaked me out! The feeling of being followed around the entire day by the same man, being watched when you eat, seeing him when you get out of the ladies room, being followed to the parking lot.. not exactly fun. I've also tried to get called in the middle of the night at my hotel when I was competing, being asked if he could pay me to "private pose". Me: "NO" Him:"what about wrestling?" Me: "No" Him:"what about armwrestling?" Me: "No" followed by slimy persuation until I hung up.
I want to be polite to fans who support our sport, but sometimes its very very difficult(only that type of fans its difficult - I love good fans:)). I want to appreciate their faschination of the sport and for me, but at the same time I'm repulsed and want to run away in certain situations.
My Dad always said: "If you don't like the smell in the bakery, get out."
I was one not to like it.

Btw Friggin crazy girlfriend!!!! Did she take pics too?:nuts:

DANISH DYNAMITE
12-30-2008, 02:12 AM
I would suggest to you girls that you dont recieve calls at your hotel room at competitions. Anybody can apparantly ask to speak to you at the reception:nuts: I think it shouldn't be possible, but I've been phone harrassed a few times.

steve147
12-30-2008, 03:28 AM
Helle,

It's great to be nice with fans but as soon as you realize you're dealing with a deluded person/s you have to be firm and tell them to go away, do or say whatever it takes. There is no reason why you or anyone else should have to put up with that rubbish. What you described is way beyond freakish and sick. I didn't know it could be that bad and i feel sorry for anyone who goes through that. Your personal space should never be compromised.

"If you don't like the smell in the bakery, get out." Wise words from your old man....

BTW, Ex is crazy like a fox, if she does takes any snaps of me i will demand some rolyalties :cool: